i'm literally just some guy

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See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna
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raedas

you can improve literally any word by adding “girl” in front of it btw. girlscared. girlnormal. girlweird. girlsilly. etc. girl can be such a beautiful focal point of anyone’s vocabulary

raedas

the trick is though you can ALSO improve literally any word by adding girl behind it. scaredgirl. normalgirl. weirdgirl. sillygirl. girl can be such a beautiful focal point of ANYONES vocabulary

raedas

hey um chuckles nervously. what the fuck are they doing over on tiktok

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thisvegetabledoesntfallinlove

there is, in fact, a "platonic explanation for this" if you're not a coward

thisvegetabledoesntfallinlove

its so fun to see the diversity of tags on this ranging from "they're literally just standing next to each other" to "deep bonds dont have to be romantic/sexual!" to "yeah friends can fuck nasty, platonically. coward." we're all so correct, there are, in fact, a million platonic explanations for this

friendly-neighborhood-arsonist
friendly-neighborhood-arsonist

I love you non binary POC

I love you non binary disabled people

I love you non binary people who use neopronouns

I love you non binary people who don't use they/them

I love you non binary people who kept their birth name

I love you non binary people who cant/won't medically transition

I love you non binary people who use the same pronouns as your AGAB

I love you non binary people who don't dress androgynous

I love you non binary people who aren't out yet

I love you non binary who are therian/otherkin

I love you non binary people who are still questioning

I love you non binary people who used to identify as trans

I love you non binary people who still identify as trans

I love you non binary who are intersex

I love you non binary people who use hyperspecific labels

I love you non binary people <3

identitty-dickruption
identitty-dickruption

body neutrality is NOT, "so long as you're happy and healthy, your body is a good body". it's about getting rid of the idea of a "good body" at all. it's saying that your body is A BODY, and having a body is a neutral feature of all humans. it's saying that specific bodies shouldn't be focussed on more than others, because all bodies are bodies

when you say "so long as you're happy and healthy", you're not actually helping. because. unless you've put in the hard work of deconstructing what you think "happiness" and "healthiness" look like, I can guarantee "happy and healthy" is just going to loop back to ableism and fatphobia

identitty-dickruption

per @chemical-x-glitch : "I am unhappy and unhealthy and I still do not deserve to be shamed for anything about my body"

YES! that is what I'm trying to say here! I am disabled and mentally ill. sometimes I'm unhappy, and I'm probably never the picture of "health". while the phrase "so long as you're happy and healthy" may seem like a neutral thing to say, it's still (at its root) shaming certain kinds of bodies... the bodies that aren't their version of happy and/or healthy

it's also a perception thing, right? I could probably go along pretending that I'm happy and (mostly) healthy. but there are people who very much ARE happy and healthy who might be judged otherwise, because we still have a very strict view of what happiness and health look like

anyway. there should be absolutely zero barriers someone has to overcome before they earn the right to not be shamed about their body. you do not have to be happy and healthy. your body is a body, and therefore not deserving of shame!